A happy marriage is one of the best things you can have in life. There may be misunderstandings and trials but if you can overcome these and make a healthy relationship with your spouse, you can be able to build a great marriage and a great life for both of you and your children.
Making your marriage work may come from simple deeds that you do each day, including things that you choose not to do or say. If you are looking for tips for a happy marriage, below are some suggestions that can be your first steps in building a happy and fulfilling married life.
* Talk and cuddle. Talking to your spouse is one great way to let him know what you like and what he likes. Do no only talk to complain. Talk to him about your day and your plans. Maintain an open communication line with your partner.
* Give time for each other. Give a little time for each other each day and schedule some activity together on weekends. If you cannot be together, don't forget to get in touch.
* Agree to avoid fights. Tell your partner how you hate fighting and getting angry. If he feels the same, you can then have an 'automatic switch' on your mind not to pick a fight but to talk calmly about it next time. Often works for me!
* Don't stop saying I love you. If you don't say it often, you will soon forget about it and you will just end up assuming that you really both love each other. Showing your spouse that you love him is often best when you also tell him how much you love him.
* Tease him. Find various ways to be passionate about him. Sex is an essential part of married life and making various ways to enjoy that aspect of marriage is one way to make great relationships with your spouse.
* Listen. Listening is one of the best tips for a happy marriage, as it is appreciated very well in marriage. Try to listen to your partner. Know their needs and know what you can do about it.
* Do not raise your voice, accuse or curse him. Anger may go out of hand but cultivate the habit of not cursing or yelling when you are angry. Words may cause irreparable damage to your partner's feelings.
* Go to church. Build your spiritual lives together and ask guidance in making your relationship work.
* Build friendship. Have fun together, enjoy doing things together and talk to each other about just anything that you want to talk about. If you can be friends with your spouse, you can also build a great partnership in marriage.
* Do not lie. Having secrets with your partner may block open communication and cause doubts in your partner's mind. The trust that you have built over time can be ruined forever with a simple lie.
* If you want your partner to be nice to you, be nice to him. Kindness begets kindness.
* Respect each other's differences. There are of course things that you will never agree with your partner. If it is something that you can put up with, sacrifice a little. Both of you should learn to compromise at times. Respect is indeed one of the best tips for a happy marriage and a successful relationship.
* Enjoy laughter together. Laughter brings out positive energy in you. A happy marriage indeed is a relationship that you can laugh together and forget about the problems in the world.
Carolyn Anderson is fond of writing about love and relationships. To learn more about the secrets of happy relationships, please take a look at blissful relationships. Another highly recommended resource is How To Get Back To Your Ex, where you find good techniques in getting your ex-partner back.
It is said that just after one kiss, a woman comes to know whether you are the one she can spend her entire life with, or not. I’m sure that this one liner must have stressed the importance of kissing, for all you guys out there. Infact, being a good kisser is one of the essential requirements of having good physical relations between the partners. A kiss might mean anything, right from emotional affection to passionate desire. What you are able to convey to the other partner will depend upon the way you kiss him/her. Kissing Tips & Techniques
First things first! Make sure that your physical appearance is attractive. Otherwise, the other person will not even feel like kissing.
Kissing means using lips. Make sure you lips are soft and supple and for that, start using lip balm on a daily basis. However, don’t use a balm or a gloss just before kissing; it will be a major turn-off.
Nobody wants to kiss garlic or onion or say, smoke. Do not kiss if you have just had smelly things for lunch or smoked cigarettes. At the same time, always keep mints with you, for that perfect fresh breath.
In the initial seconds, go easy. Give the other person time to feel completely at ease. You don’t want to scare your partner.
Always try different types of kisses. French kiss is not the only kiss in the world.
Don’t become so lost in the kiss, so as to completely forget the other person. Be attentive to his/her non-verbal responses.
Lastly, be confident. Getting nervous while kissing is sure to make the beautiful sensations end up in a mess. Just go with the flow.
Different Kiss Types Many people believe that there are only two types of kisses - check kiss and French kiss. However, the realm of kiss is very vast. To know more, read on!
In the Butterfly Kiss, you bring your face very close to that of your partner and then, flutter your eyelashes rapidly.
Cheek Kiss, as we all know, is one of the friendly kisses. It is usually adopted on the first date. You need to gently brush you lips across your partner’s cheek.
Earlobe Kiss involves sipping and sucking the earlobe of the partner. Since you are so close to the ear, do not make too loud noises.
In the Eskimo Kiss, you gently rub your nose with that of your partner.
Eye Kiss, as the name suggests, implies giving a tender kiss on the closed eyes of the partner.
You can do the Finger Kiss, while relaxing with your partner. Take his/her fingers and gently suck on them.
Considered an erotic kiss, Foot Kiss involves gently sucking the toes and then, kissing the foot very lightly.
Forehead Kiss is meant to be the friendliest kiss. You simply brush your lips across your partner’s forehead.
Freeze Kiss, also known as Melt Kiss, is the one in which you put an ice cube into your mouth and kiss your partner, while passing the cube to his/her mouth with your tongue.
French Kiss is the most sensual kiss amongst all. At times called the Soul Kiss, it involves the tongue along with the lips.
While doing the Fruity Kiss, you put a piece of a juicy fruit between your lips. While kissing you nibble a part of the fruit, while he nibbles the other.
In Hand Kiss, you raise your partner’s hand to your lips and brush them lightly across the tip of the hand.
Hot and Cold Kiss involves first licking your partners lips to make them warm and then, blowing on them to make them cold. Keep alternating.
Lick Kiss is gently running your tongue over your partner’s lips, just before kissing.
Lip Sucking Kiss means that you suck on the lower lip of the partner while kissing.
For Neck Nibble Kiss, start with nibbling you way up and down your partner’s neck. Finally, place a gentle kiss on his/her lips.
Nip Kiss will require you to slightly nibble on your partner’s lips, while kissing. Make sure you do not end up biting him/her.
While doing the Shoulder Kiss, come from behind your partner, give a slight hug and then, kiss the top of his/her shoulder.
You can do the Sip Kiss while drinking something sweet. Take a sip of the drink, leaving a little of it on your lips, and gently kiss your partner.
In Trickle Kiss, you take a sip of your favorite drink and then, trickle it into your partner’s mouth while kissing.
Wake Up Kiss is more about time than technique. Just before your partner is about to wake up, kiss him/her - starting with the cheeks and ending at the lips. Then, softly say - Good Morning!
Marriage proposals made over a romantic dinner at an elegant restaurant can be very romantic but they are not necessarily creative. Many women dream about the day that the man of their dreams proposes to them and hope that the day will be absolutely perfect in every way imaginable. In a recent study, the majority of married women reported that they believe that their spouse spent a significant amount of money on their wedding proposal but that the lack of originality in the proposal had left the women feeling disappointed. One creative way to propose for a couple involved in a long distance relationship is to plan a surprise visit and set up a scavenger hunt. You could have a friend pick you up from the airport so that your girlfriend doesn’t know that you are coming to visit and have the friend give your girlfriend instructions for the scavenger hunt. You could hide a number of small surprises such as candy, flowers and a CD as the first few stops on the scavenger hunt and then hide at the final location poised to propose when your girlfriend completes the game. An outdoor enthusiast might appreciate a creative proposal during a camping trip. It’s a good idea to plan a quiet trip for just you and your girlfriend at a picturesque location. You could hide the ring in your sleeping bag to use in a surprise proposal. When it’s time to go to sleep after a long day of hiking and fishing, you could complain that there must be a rock or something underneath you and then pull out the ring and make your proposal. This creative proposal also contains the element of surprise as a camping trip is not a usual proposal location. Another creative proposal idea is to place an ad in a local newspaper. You could place an outrageous ad in a newspaper asking anyone who was willing to get married to give you a call and include a fictitious phone number. Then when you and your girlfriend are reading the paper together, you could point out the ad as a joke and while she is reading the ad, seize the opportunity to pull out the engagement ring and let her know that you would love to marry her. Proposing at a sporting event is a creative way to propose to a sports fan. For this proposal idea you could either arrange to have your proposal broadcast over the public address system or displayed on the large screen. If you are really adventurous, you could also contact the team’s public relations department and try to make arrangements to make your proposal on the field at halftime. They might be willing to help you stage a scenario where you are either chosen to win a prize or participate in a contest and while you are on the field, they would hand over the microphone to allow you to make your proposal. Another creative marriage proposal idea is to purchase a book of poems and leave the first few pages intact and carve a heart into the remaining pages and sew the engagement ring to the back of the book. You could suggest taking turns reading the poems on each page and plan to have your girlfriend turn the final complete page to reveal the heart and ring that were hidden inside. This proposal idea is not only creative but also incredibly romantic. Having the DJ of your girlfriend’s favorite radio program ask her if she will marry you is another creative proposal idea. You will want to make sure that you are aware of the exact time that the DJ will be sending your message so that you are able to ensure that you and your girlfriend are listening together when he makes the announcement. You could also arrange to have the DJ play a song that has a special meaning for you as a couple so that you can enjoy a dance together after she accepts your creative proposal. Another creative way to propose is to include all of your family and friends in the event by inviting them all to a surprise party for your girlfriend. To make this proposal work, you would either convince your girlfriend that you want to have a quiet dinner at home or at a restaurant with just the two of you. Once you arrive at the destination all of the guests will reveal themselves and while all eyes are on the two of you, you could take the opportunity to profess your love and propose. Still another creative way to propose is to hide the ring in an unexpected location. For example you could pretend to have a clogged sink and while you are working to fix the clog, you could reach into the sink and pull out the engagement ring. When your girlfriend is nearby, you could seize the opportunity to pull out the ring you had hidden earlier and say something to the effect of, “No wonder the sink is clogged, I’ll have to find another place to store this ring, how about your finger?” This whimsical proposal is both light-hearted and creative. A variation on the traditional proposal at an elegant restaurant could be to have the waiter bring out the ring with the bill. You could have a little good natured fun with your girlfriend by going out of your way to drop hints that you would be proposing over dinner. If you keep up the act, she will be expecting your proposal with each course. After dessert you could tell her that you have something very important to ask and as she eagerly awaits your proposal, you could ask an inconsequential question about something completely irrelevant to your relationship. She will probably be furious at this point but her anger won’t last as the waiter arrives with the bill and the engagement ring and you let her know how much she means to you. Finally a creative proposal idea is for the woman to ask the man to marry her, instead of waiting for him to propose. Many women anxiously await the day that the man in their life will propose but why not add your own creative twist by proposing to him instead. The woman is free to propose in any way that she finds truly romantic and can ensure that the proposal is both creative and romantic and that it’s a moment that they both will remember for the rest of their lives. A great marriage proposal doesn’t have to be expensive or extravagant. Many women are more likely to cherish the memories of a proposal that was inexpensive but truly creative. The creativity is what makes the proposal so memorable and what makes it a great story to tell their friends.
In the beginning God created the heaven and earth. He created so many things in this world, that everyone would be proud and thankful to think that your are one of those wonderful creations of God.
It was early morning of 27th day of April, year 1985 in Bayambang Pangasinan, a woman gave birth to a cute baby girl, but sadly to say the woman did not pass through it, the woman died in giving birth.
After a few days, they decided to baptize the baby and they named it Sabina but her true father Juan and brothers and sisters let Sabina to be adopted by Mercedes the youngest sister of Juan,she is a very good housewife and her husband Carmelo, a government employee,they adopted the child no thinking twice because her father cannot further more assist her needs. They legally adopted the child that’s why the child gained their family name which is Sabina Diaz Aguillana.They raised the child with care, full of support and unconditional love. Together with their biological sons and daughters naming Lourdes, George, Gracilda and Carmelo Jr., they serve as guide and guardians of Sabina they help their parents to upbring Sabina in good ways since they adopted the child they treated it as their own and real daughter and I am proud to say that it was ME. I was so thankful to them that they gave me all that I wanted and enlighten my life.They mold my mind and soul to become morally equipped.
At the age of 7 I started to enter school which I am a first grader at once until I reached grade six and earned some honors, and to graduate in elementary in Bayambang Central School (BCS) year 1998, it was a moment wherein children enjoyed their schooling that’s the time I learn to play volleyball, soccer and train myself to improve my singing voice. When I reached 12 years of age my high school life started I studied in Bayambang National High School (BNHS) a years of joys and laughters this is the stage that u will find some friends and “barkadas” where u can share your problems and sentiments, where u can find your bestfriend to count on in ups and downs. It was a four years of curiosity that brings my life to succeed and my I am so overwhelmed at the second time I received my diploma in Secondary, way back year 2002.
As year passes I did not even look into myself that I’ve grown up I’m already 16 when I enter college I take up education , I can say that college life is so interesting this is the time that u really need to bring ur best foot forward, but despite of those lots of homeworks, reports and paper works I am so comfortable coz I have my friends or to lean on we call our friendship as “kaberkz” naming Ate Es, Chell, Mai, Rochelle, Cecil, Rosema and Glecy which are really true friends, their are the clown of my life, why clown ? coz most of the time when were together we laugh coz Ate Es always giving us jokes that makes us smile . Bout Mai “ang high blood ng grupo pero wag ka pinaka maganda naman”, Chell “tagasalo naman ng mga secrets ko” I can tell to her some private happenings on my life..,Rochelle “ang cute at fashionista ng grupo kayalang mejo mapili pagdating sa mga guys”, Cecil “the gorgeous girl ang hilig sa make up gaya ko”jeje!, Rosema ang beauty queen ng grupo”, Glecy “ang pinakamadaldal naman sa grupo”jeje!peace! I have nothing to say but mabait cla lahat at enjoy kasama. It was full of entertainment this is always the “first” first time to drink beer, to date, to have night life and ofcourse first love. Uhmm, speaking of first love lots of guys Id met and I can say that its not always the first whom you can be with. I think I have tried four relationships but none of them goes into it. My pasts relationships makes and teach me well to become more matured enough in making such ideas in having a good relationships in choosing the right man for me, before I graduate in college I found the man of my life, we started as friends to best friends “my bear” and finally my one true love his name is Jose Carlo C. Gamboa aka “as my mahal”.We enjoyed every single minute having each other he teaches and guides me to my assignments, reports, and preparing my lesson plan when I practiced teaching in Pangasinan State University and Malasiqui Central School ,vice versa I also help him everytime he needs me. There are lots of people u will meet and seem to be true to you and sometimes hypocrite just to approach you but that’s life in college u need to be strong, flexible,sincere and most of all u never quit that’s my motto in life “Quitters never win, Winners never quit”. Then finally, year 2006 I aim the degree of Bachelor of Elementary Education.Nothing can compare to my happiness when I received my diploma specially my family, I award that diploma to my beloved parents. Because I think without their support and believe in me that I can make it I will not be able to fulfill their dream for me.
Life not ends here I think this is just the beginning of my life when I graduated in college their lots of consequences I’ve encountered like hunting a job, preparing for my board exam. I’ve gone to many places just to have a job I tried to work in Laguna as private tuitor of my aunt’s daughters at the same time I tried to apply to some company like Fujitsu and Samsung but suddenly after my evaluation im not qualified to that company in a reason that I am over qualified I am so disappointed at that time, after that the next target is Manila wherein competition really occurs too I have gone to some jobfairs and agencies like in Makati , Pasig and Ortigas but I never succeed on it “teaching talaga ata para sakin”..
After few months I took up my LET EXAM I was so nervous at that time praying deeply just to past the exam, the exam is pretty good but apparently other seems hard. Way back 2007 the result came out my sister Lourdes called me in my mobile she congratulates me that I am the one of those board passers, I am so thankful to God that time I am so much proud to say that I am now a professional teacher, days has passed I need to apply for a teaching job. I submitted my first application in Esteban Abada E/S located at Proj.7 Q.C. I took up tests, demonstrations, and interview. I waited for the result of ranking and Thanks to God I qualified the position, at first I am a Substitute Teacher I of that school S.Y. 2007-2008, under a third grader class, it is quite harsh and vigorous because its my first year of experience and my class is very naughty, my patience and calmness brings me to a smooth way on how to discipline a child, but I just said to myself that every child needs me. The true aim of everyone who aspires to be a teacher should be not to impart his own opinions but to kindle minds.Teaching is really a work of heart. After my contract in EAES I applied again in Kamuning Elementary School in Q.C. again they evaluate my qualifications. By June 19, 2008, Commonwealth Elementary School in Q.C. called me up to report in their school as Substitute Teacher after a few months, it was August 12, 2008 I received my appointment as a Permanent Teacher I, I am so happy, my family, my friends, and my mahal he is so proud of me that time I cant explain my emotions coz it’s a long time I am working into it to become a permanent and God answered my prayers I just promise to Him and to myself that I will do my duties as teacher.
As of now me in Carlo are still in touch we were glad and proud to say that it was three and half years past “pero kami parin.” Our relationship is “give and take” all the time that’s why it lasts up to now. I cannot say that our partnership is perfect coz sometimes there are certain misunderstandings that a partner usually experienced, but for all of those struggles and tears which we had taken no one of us refuse and get tired of our relationship. It might not be perfect but I can say that our relationship has “complete rekados” the term we use.It is important in any relationship that God is in between partners, respect, trust is always involve to both of us and loyalty made us a good partner. Specially to our family, they serves as an inspiration to us to be a better wife and husband and to be a loving mother someday. This is just the summary on how my life deals in such creations of God. I know there are lots of instances that might be happen to me I just want to be happy ever since and praying to accomplish my responsibilities and duties here on earth . God is always their for us to guide us and never put us in any harm.
Do you want to know how my love story started?....? to follow…
Every woman aspires and wishes for a good man it might not be the best man but the better man to have. For me, In a relationship its not important that he gives you happiness the important thing is he really loves you coz how can a man or a woman can give happiness to someone if they dont feel love on it. Love is sacrifice it does not give condition thats what I felt when I met Carlo. I mean it, before he came into my life Im in a relationship but it seems would not be successful coz I had that instinct that my partner is not really sincere and loyal to me I caught him that his ex-girlfriend texting him “at may iloveyou pa sa text”that’s the time that I think he was just playing on me I confront him I asked what is really happening to both of us he said that it was just her cousin that they just want me to make jealous “naniwala naman ako” after that talk its been two months he didn’t meet me and he never texted me. All I want is to make that relationship survive but that’s life we need to accept that we really not meant for each other .For me, its just a big mistake. Because of what happen I texted my friends to give me a text mate just to forget what happened, Ate Gala best friend of Rochelle gave me a textmate naming Carlo If I am not mistaken it was month of May, year 2005.”dito na nagsimula ang aming friendship” at first I told to my self “ suplado naman tong lalaking to” and why? He always asked me who gave his number to me, if I know him or if he knows me but Ate gala said that time I will not tell that she is the one who gave his number so it serves as a secret for the meantime pero makulit talaga I never had the chance to make it as a secret anymore. So we became text mates we started to know each other we exchange opinions and ideas, almost of the time we text each other that time I realize “mukha naman palang mabait ang mokong at masayang kakwentuhan”jeje! After few months our friendship goes deeper that’s why boyfriend ko na siya joke!nope hindi pa we became bestfriends eventhough we still not meet each other personally it was July 17, 2005. We enjoyed the company of each other in a way of text. He is a very good bestfriend he always advice me to my problems and specially to my love life he always guide me on what will I do to my ex it come to the point that he texted that guy just to meet me “pero ganun talaga kung ayaw na wag mong pilitin”. So what I did I started again, I realized that time to focus on something new, lots of guys I met but only on text “hindi rin naman naging successful” even sometimes I get hurt “naiinlove ako agad kasi sa text”., but my bestfriend are always their to comfort me. At hindi ko napansin na nasasaktan ko narin pala bestfriend ko for the reason that…. “minahal narin pala niya ako” …. He called me up and we talk what he really feels on me, I didn’t expect that time that he felt in love in me I was a little bit shock and I don’t know what will I tell him coz I don’t believe If he really mean it I am not so ready to that situation because its just a text. I really think of it, it was a couple of weeks when I decided to say what I really feel for him. Because of what we have, we became bestfriends , we understand each other, we protect each other, we like each other and of course we learn to love each other already that’s why its not hard for me what would be my answer for him. “hindi naman siguro masama kung ang bestfriend ay maging boyfriend”. So I said YES I love him too, it was October 20, 2005, but I have a condition for him If he really mean that he really loves me we need to see each other in person “baka kasi gusto mo lang sa text” but in person it wont be the same. So both of us is nervous when time comes that we really need to meet, we decided to meet in CSI Lucao in Dagupan that time I don’t know what will I feel it is a combination of excitement and fear why? Im so excited to see the person who understand me in all the ways and fear coz im afraid that if we meet he will not like me or he will denied me. When I reach the mall I saw a guy wearing a red shirt and suddenly comes into my mind “siya kaya un” I am really nervous, there is a feeling that all people staring at me“manginig ka talaga..So I texted him that I am on my way going inside the mall “anu ba un parang gusto ko nalang magtago” when he texted me that he is on his way also. “kaka nervous talaga” then I texted him “punta muna ako ng cr”jeje! Nagtago talaga! When I leaved the comfort room here is a guy again wearing red. So I texted Carlo what is the color of his shirt but he never answered me but me I describe what I am wearing. After a while he texted me that he was in his way from my back “naku bigla tuloy ako napatago sa likod ng malaking poste at hindi mapakali kung san pupunta”jeje! without knowing after a seconds his already their . I don’t know what will I say that time isa nalang nasabi ko “ikaw……” and he bear smile at me and said Sabina, so I said yes its me after having a short conversation we decided to watch movie, were so happy that time I said to myself “mas masarap palang kasama to in person at mas mabait pa siya sa inaakala ko”
